On the thirty-first of March, 1968, a hundred and six vehicles left Onitsha for Enugu. By nightfall it was the heaviest single loss the Nigerian Army would suffer in the whole of the war.
He was twenty-one years old, and he was not meant to come home from that road.
He came home for another fifty-eight years — and what he did with them is the reason his family, his village, two armies and two countries are gathering this October.
The Story
27 September 1946 · Ajata Isieke Ibeku
Born at sunrise
He was born in the early hours of the morning at Ajata Isieke Ibeku, in Umuahia, in what is now Abia State. His mother, Rachel NwaUbani of Ogboko Ouzitem, Bende Local Government Area, was tending the family farmland when he came. The family regarded his birth as a blessing and a symbol of hope.
He was the youngest of three children of Mr Ruben NwaUbani, a businessman of Ajata Isieke Ibeku. The family later settled permanently in Isieke Ibeku, Umuahia North — and for the rest of his life, however far he travelled, he stayed connected to it.
31 December 1963 · Enlistment
He went with a friend, and came back a soldier
As a young man he had a strong sense of adventure and discipline. Seeking a meaningful path, he accompanied a close friend to a military recruitment centre — and enlisted in the Nigerian Army on 31 December 1963.
Service identity: EX-63NA/4137, Private Stanley Egwuatu NwaUbani (NA63). He served diligently and earned the respect of colleagues and superiors.
Private NwaUbani · Nigerian Army
31 March 1968 · Abagana
The road between Onitsha and Enugu
During the Nigerian Civil War his courage and resilience were tested. On 31 March 1968, during military operations near Abagana on the Onitsha–Enugu road, he sustained severe injuries from an explosion. The blast caused multiple shrapnel wounds and significantly affected his eyesight.
He was one of the brave survivors of the Abagana Disaster. Through the International Committee of the Red Cross he was evacuated to Austria, where surgeons removed shrapnel and worked to preserve his vision.
What began as a journey for recovery became the foundation of a new life.
1972 – 2007 · Vienna
Thirty-five years at the United Nations
Following his recovery he remained in Austria and represented the United Nations proudly for thirty-five years — at UNIDO, and later at UNOV. He stayed passionately connected to Nigeria and returned home to keep family and community ties.
Before his retirement in 2007 he received a commendation from Secretary-General Kofi Annan.
1976 onward · Marriage & children
Forty-eight years with Stella
In 1976 his family went looking for a wife for him. His cousins knew a girl from their school — Stella Onyeberechi Odinkemere of Amuzuku. He flew home to meet her, and they flew back to Vienna together. She became Mrs Stella Onyeberechi Ubani, and they were husband and wife for forty-eight years.
For years before that he had written to her, and he used to put perfume powder inside the letters. The postman would puncture the envelope, put a little of the powder on himself, and then deliver it.
Stella joined the Embassy of the Federal Republic of Nigeria in Vienna in the eighties, as Social Secretary to the Ambassador. She is there still.
Four children were born, brought up and educated in Vienna, London and America — Clements Helböck Ubani, married to Yuil Ubani, blessed with a son, Leonard; Martyn Ogechi Ubani, married to Sabine Ubani, blessed with two children, Aaliyah and Louis; Nnenna D. Ubani, of Abuja, Nigeria; and Elizabeth I. Ubani, of the United Kingdom.
He lived in Austria for fifty-seven years. He was a man of integrity, fairness, discipline and determination. He loved sport and kept an active life. He never lost touch with his homeland, and faithfully maintained his visits to Nigeria.
With his wife, StellaStanley and Stella — a portrait she asked us to use
Later years
Two old soldiers
Years after the war that nearly killed him, General Yakubu Gowon — Head of State and Commander-in-Chief of the Nigerian Armed Forces through the war — came to see him in Vienna, at the Residence of the Nigerian Ambassador. Stella was beside him. The soldier who had been left for dead on the Abagana road received the man who had commanded that army, as a guest.
Gen. Gowon with Stanley and Stella — Vienna
2 May 2026 · Vienna
He finished his course
He passed away peacefully on 2 May 2026 in Austria, an octogenarian whose eighty years of impact left a legacy of courage, service and devotion to family.
He is remembered as a Nigerian Army veteran, a survivor of the Abagana Disaster of 31 March 1968, a distinguished United Nations staff member, a loving husband, father and grandfather, and a proud son of Ajata Isieke Ibeku.
The full film, seven minutes, narrated: from the boy at Ajata Isieke to the soldier on the
Abagana road, to Vienna and the United Nations, and home again — ending in his own voice.
A Life in Pictures
Stanley and Stella — a portrait she asked us to useHis mother, Rachel NwaUbani of Ogboko OuzitemPrivate Stanley Egwuatu NwaUbani — Nigerian ArmyIn beret, on active serviceIn ceremonial dressIn full field kitWith Stella in AustriaWith Stella in ViennaStanley and Stella, ViennaWith his wife, StellaMrs Stella UbaniStanley and StellaHis sons Martyn Ogechi and Clements Helböck, 1990sWith his youngest daughter in his office at the United NationsMartyn and Nnenna as childrenWith his son MartynGen. Yakubu Gowon with Stanley and Stella — ViennaWith Gen. Yakubu GowonIn a fur coat, Vienna winterIn a navy suitSeated portraitIn a dark suit and red tieFull-length portrait in isiaguStella with their daughter NnennaHis son Clements with his wife Yuil, their son Lennard, and NnennaIn the field during the warPortrait, Vienna
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Celebration of Life
Funeral Programme
The NwaUbani Family of Ajata, Isieke Ibeku, Umuahia North LGA, and Okoko Item, Bende LGA, Abia State, cordially invites you.
01
Service of Songs
Tuesday, 20 October 2026 · 5:00 – 7:00 PM
Methodist Church Nigeria, Cathedral of Unity No. 3 Conakry Close, Wuse Zone 3, Abuja, FCT
Presiding: His Grace, Most Rev. Dr. Michael Olusegun Akinwale, JP
02
Wake-Keeping
Thursday, 29 October 2026 · 5:00 PM
Isieke Community Model High School Opposite Ajata Isieke Road, Isieke Ibeku, Umuahia North LGA, Abia State
03
Funeral Service
Friday, 30 October 2026 · 11:00 AM
Methodist Church Nigeria, Wesley Cathedral Crowther Street / Umuwaya Road, Umuahia, Abia State
Presiding: His Grace, Most Rev. Dr. Chibuzor Raphael Opoko, Archbishop of Umuahia
04
Military Funeral & Interment
Friday, 30 October 2026 · 1:00 PM
NwaUbani Family Compound Ajata, Isieke Ibeku, Umuahia North LGA, Abia State
⚑ Interment with Military Honours
05
Reception
Friday, 30 October 2026 · 2:00 PM
International Conference Centre (ICC) Government Station Layout, Umuahia, Abia State
06
Thanksgiving Service
Sunday, 1 November 2026 · 9:00 AM
Methodist Church Nigeria, Wesley Cathedral Crowther Street / Umuwaya Road, Umuahia, Abia State
For guests travelling
Everything you need for the days in Umuahia, 29 October to 1 November.
The reception is at the ICC — not at the compound
Friday’s interment at 248 Bende Road, Isieke Ibeku is the burial only.
The reception from 2:00 p.m. is at the International Conference Centre, Government
Station Layout, Umuahia. Please go there after the graveside.
Where to stay — quote the code UBANI
Say “Ubani family burial — discount code UBANI” at every desk, and ask for
written confirmation showing the code. Block Wednesday 28 October through Sunday
1 November.
Hotel
Where
Telephone
Oxvera Hotel Umuahia newest — call first
Ochendo Bypass, off Bende Road, Nkata Ibeku
+234 912 966 0524 0904 854 0412
Paradise Crystal Hotel
Ochendo Bypass, off Bende Road, 440236
+234 812 516 4329
Rixos Continental
No. 1A Rixos Avenue, by CBN junction, off Bende Road
confirm on Google Maps
Sun Heaven Hotel
Umuagu Ibeku Road, near State CID
+234 912 197 9955
If those four are full: Harriet Suites +234 813 051 6516 · Golden Olives
Resort +234 708 680 2894 · Hotel Royal Damgrete +234 810 777 7740.
Where everything happens
Place
When
Address
Isieke Community Model High School
Thu 29 Oct, wake from 5:00 p.m.
Bende Road, Isieke Ibeku · plus code GGVG+9FF
Wesley Cathedral, Methodist Church Nigeria
Fri 30 Oct, 11:00 a.m. · Sun 1 Nov, 9:00 a.m.
No. 3 Umuwaya Road, Umuahia
The family compound interment only
Fri 30 Oct, 1:00 p.m.
248 Bende Road, Isieke Ibeku
International Conference Centre reception
Fri 30 Oct, 2:00 p.m.
Government Station Layout · plus code GGG8+2PF
Legacy Old School Night follows from 8:00 p.m. on the Friday.
Aso-Ebi
Orders are handled directly by the family’s vendor, Mrs Nkeiru Ezekwem
— +234 806 124 0895.
₦20,000 men · ₦25,000 women, with gele.
Pay to Ezekwem Nkeiruka Adaora · UBA PLC · 1014808284, with the
narration “Aso-ebi friends · your full name · delivery address”. Send
proof of payment and your delivery address to her on WhatsApp.
Take these with you
The family’s own sheets, to keep on your phone. The directions sheet carries QR codes
that open Google Maps turn-by-turn for each venue.
112 national emergency · 199 police ·
122 road safety.
Federal Medical Centre, Umuahia — Aba Road, opposite GTBank, Umu Obasi.
Accident & Emergency +234 813 787 5304, open 24 hours.
Ambulance: the FMC desk above, or Abia State lines 0814 506 8414 · 0815 161 2408 ·
0909 695 1352. Police command 0803 541 5405. Fire 0809 600 1819.
If a guest is taken ill at the reception, the ambulance goes to the ICC at
Government Station Layout — not to 248 Bende Road.
What the weather will do
Late October is one of Umuahia’s wettest months. Expect about 30–31 °C,
humidity of 80–90%, cloudy mornings and heavy bursts from mid-afternoon.
The graveside at 1:00 p.m. on the Friday has no roof and is the hardest hour of the day for
older guests. Please bring an umbrella, and drink water.
Tributes close Thursday, 15 October 2026
Send a tribute
Family, friends, colleagues and associates who wish to submit a tribute, condolence message or personal remembrance for inclusion in the funeral memorial publication are warmly invited to do so.
Kindly include your full name, title or organisation where applicable, and your relationship to him.
For the funeral service on Friday, 30 October 2026. Orders are handled directly by the family's vendor.
Men
₦20,000
Women + Gele
₦25,000
Vendor: Zakody Fashion — Mrs Nkeiru Ezekwem Order via WhatsApp:+234 806 124 0895
Make payment to UBA PLC, Account Name: Ezekwem Nkeiruka Adaora, Account Number 1014808284. Send proof of payment via WhatsApp with your full delivery address and telephone number. Delivery is made to the address provided.
Nna Anyị, Laa N'udo
Our father, go in peace
In Loving Memory
Stanley Egwuatu NwaUbani
Nna Anyị, Laa N'udo — the tribute song
▶ Tap to play
Nna Anyị, Laa Nʼudo
“Our Father, Go In Peace” — the tribute song written for him,
in Igbo, with what each line means.
Verse one — the morning he was born
Nʼụtụtụ ka ị bịaraYou came in the morning
Chi na-abọ nʼụbịDay breaking over the farm
Nne gị nọ nʼọrụYour mother was at work
Ị bụ ngọzi, ị bụ olileanyaYou were a blessing, you were hope
Chorus
Nna anyị, laa nʼudoOur father, go in peace
Ije gị ezuolaYour journey is complete
Dike nʼagha, lawaWarrior of battle, go home
Aha gị ga-adịgideYour name will endure
Verse two — Abagana
Ha kpọrọ gị nʼụzọ aghaThey called you to the road of war
Ọkụ dara nʼAbaganaFire fell at Abagana
Ma ị lọtara, ị lọtaraBut you came back, you came back
Chi gị chebere gịYour chi was keeping you
Verse three — Austria, and home
Ị gara ebe dị anyaYou went to a far place
Nʼala oyi, nʼala ndị ọzọTo a cold land, a land of others
Ma obi gị nọ nʼụlọBut your heart stayed home
Isieke echefughị gịIsieke never forgot you
Bridge — spoken, over the drums
A nwa okwu aginga ekwulaA child of valour never dies